{"id":9461,"date":"2023-03-08T16:06:49","date_gmt":"2023-03-08T08:06:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/?p=9461"},"modified":"2023-03-08T16:10:03","modified_gmt":"2023-03-08T08:10:03","slug":"giving-up","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/2023\/03\/08\/giving-up\/","title":{"rendered":"Giving Up"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Firstly, happy International Women&#8217;s day. I am a woman. Happy me (?)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Secondly, it&#8217;s raining once more. Sheesh, I keep writing about the rain but last weekend. Upon a Sunday, it was raining so heavily and the Saturday night prior, I was watching a Malaysian movie called Imaginur (it&#8217;s really good and feels, if you have the opportunity to watch it, go for it!) and went home around 11pm or so?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It was considered &#8216;late&#8217; to me but to wake up in the morning of a rainy Sunday at 8am, I went &#8220;Meh&#8230;&#8221; because I had booked a session at the Gympod. Instead of letting the slot go because I do know the &#8216;balance&#8217; of is it worth wasting your money or your time, I checked and I could swap the time around to evening instead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If I gave up, I would have just not gone to my gym session, instead I made the effort to at least swap it to a different time but still do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Which worked because it rained much heavier after I swapped the booking while in bed and it would have been horrible to travel all the way to the specific gym location I go to.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yet, AUGH I could have just given up. Yet I didn&#8217;t. Which is totally different from quitting or knowing when to stop and restart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For one thing, I always &#8220;stop&#8221; and not go to events or exercise sessions or training sessions if I&#8217;m not feeling good that day. It&#8217;s totally a different feeling and it&#8217;s a NO don&#8217;t do it because in general, I would also have to be considerate and think about the safety in others. If I&#8217;m not feeling good, it&#8217;s not safe to continue, thus try another day.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But giving up is different in <strong>my<\/strong> definition. There&#8217;s a sense of &#8220;You can do it but you choose not to because you just don&#8217;t wanna&#8221; for me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then there&#8217;s quitting, quitting because I know something is not going to work out and that should be &#8216;quick&#8217; because that means I&#8217;ll try ANOTHER way. It&#8217;s a cut losses, you know this won&#8217;t work so let&#8217;s find an alternative method because&#8230; we aren&#8217;t giving up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So are you the type that gives up, do the stop and restart or quit and find a different method kind of person?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Meanwhile, it&#8217;s annoying. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>One of the reasons I keep on training is not the adults, no no. It&#8217;s ESPECIALLY the children. Like thanks. If they want to keep seeing me in a ring or stage and such, well. I can&#8217;t disappoint <em>them<\/em> can I? They are highly likely not able to read my blogposts or social media stuff but they&#8217;ll be able to pop up whenever their parents bring them along. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And if it&#8217;s just for the one kid or whomever that says, I wanna see you there or gets all &#8220;GASP!! It&#8217;s a girl!&#8221; like Anya from SpyXFamily all excited with her Waku waku-s&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Then sheeesh, I got to work on for it, won&#8217;t I?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Song of this post recommendation, listen to Tuyu&#8217;s song. 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