{"id":9846,"date":"2026-01-12T10:10:00","date_gmt":"2026-01-12T02:10:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/?p=9846"},"modified":"2026-01-11T20:41:58","modified_gmt":"2026-01-11T12:41:58","slug":"embrace-a-ragey-new-year-a-realistic-perspective","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/2026\/01\/12\/embrace-a-ragey-new-year-a-realistic-perspective\/","title":{"rendered":"Embrace a Ragey New Year: A Realistic Perspective"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Ragey New Year everyone! By the way, all pictures here are taken with my Charmera for that 90s feel.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-attachment-id=\"9847\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/2026\/01\/12\/embrace-a-ragey-new-year-a-realistic-perspective\/busthroughlittleindia\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/busthroughlittleindia.png\" data-orig-size=\"1440,1080\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"busthroughlittleindia\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/busthroughlittleindia-1024x768.png\" src=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/busthroughlittleindia-1024x768.png\" alt=\"point of view from a double decker bus going through little india\" class=\"wp-image-9847\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/busthroughlittleindia-1024x768.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/busthroughlittleindia-480x360.png 480w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/busthroughlittleindia-768x576.png 768w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/busthroughlittleindia.png 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Apparently people have work have noticed me being angry and it&#8217;s the start of the year. But, why not? When every year I have observed and put in my own data (I actually put in a google sheets) of happenings (<em>not weeks, it&#8217;s months and years<\/em>) and noticed that if people won&#8217;t change themselves. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The only thing I can change is myself isn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So no. I&#8217;m not going to wish a happy new year. It&#8217;s not a fits-all greeting. I&#8217;m wishing you all a ragey new year to those who get it and need it too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I tend to not talk behind people&#8217;s backs, I talk in front of themselves. Because why talk behind people&#8217;s backs when you can talk in front of them so they can take note and then improve themselves, hmm?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And because they do <strong>not<\/strong>, then it&#8217;s <strong><mark style=\"background-color:rgba(0, 0, 0, 0)\" class=\"has-inline-color has-medium-pink-color\">RAGEY NEW YEAR EVERYONE<\/mark><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-attachment-id=\"9848\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/2026\/01\/12\/embrace-a-ragey-new-year-a-realistic-perspective\/posb\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/posb.png\" data-orig-size=\"1440,1080\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"posb\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/posb-1024x768.png\" src=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/posb-1024x768.png\" alt=\"POSB Squirrel on a blue volkswagen\" class=\"wp-image-9848\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/posb-1024x768.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/posb-480x360.png 480w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/posb-768x576.png 768w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/posb.png 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I mean, what&#8217;s the point of wishing happy new year when you know it is going to suck or that the people who actually think to wish it happy new year do <em>nothing<\/em> to make it happy.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The rest of the year just ends up more <strong>depressing<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong><mark style=\"background-color:#f4ca16\" class=\"has-inline-color\">Shut it with toxic positivity and gas lighting.<\/mark><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I wish you a ragey new year. Perhaps you&#8217;ll start it really angry and then it actually ends <em><strong>happy<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What&#8217;s ironic is even when I&#8217;m really seemingly angry to them all, they still approach me because they know things still get done. Which is ridiculous really since I tend to have to fix other people&#8217;s shortcomings so excuse me, why shouldn&#8217;t I be angry? It&#8217;s a right.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thus, let&#8217;s start off things differently compared to other years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-attachment-id=\"9849\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/2026\/01\/12\/embrace-a-ragey-new-year-a-realistic-perspective\/orchard-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/orchard.png\" data-orig-size=\"1440,1080\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"orchard\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/orchard-1024x768.png\" src=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/orchard-1024x768.png\" alt=\"orchard road\" class=\"wp-image-9849\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/orchard-1024x768.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/orchard-480x360.png 480w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/orchard-768x576.png 768w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/orchard.png 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>As I walked around Orchard road for some errands too, I just wondered if this point is where the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/orchardroadfashion\">Orchard Road Fashion<\/a> account usually takes videos or photos from.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s just me being curious and nothing to do with being angry, or IS IT. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-attachment-id=\"9850\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/2026\/01\/12\/embrace-a-ragey-new-year-a-realistic-perspective\/crow\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/crow.png\" data-orig-size=\"1440,1080\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"crow\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/crow-1024x768.png\" src=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/crow-1024x768.png\" alt=\"a crow\" class=\"wp-image-9850\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/crow-1024x768.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/crow-480x360.png 480w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/crow-768x576.png 768w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/crow.png 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Nonetheless, there was a cute crow who flew down and landed at the crossing bollards and I managed to take some close ups.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-attachment-id=\"9852\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/2026\/01\/12\/embrace-a-ragey-new-year-a-realistic-perspective\/store\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/store.png\" data-orig-size=\"1440,1080\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"store\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/store-1024x768.png\" src=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/store-1024x768.png\" alt=\"temasek shophouse\" class=\"wp-image-9852\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/store-1024x768.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/store-480x360.png 480w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/store-768x576.png 768w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/store.png 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>What would you guys do. Will you continue the year with a fake happy start even if you know it isn&#8217;t going to be happy? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lunar New Year is going to be next month so you can have a Take 2 of a new year too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Technically you can take any time, any month, any day to reset. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your own life is your own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Just the start of the year is when <em>everyone<\/em> else as a majority would like to &#8220;restart&#8221; but you can have a head start on restarting any time once you know where you would like to go or do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>How can you influence those around you when they will <strong>not<\/strong> change for the better no matter how many notices or warnings they get?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Perhaps the only solution is to change yourself to go around them and shock them into action. And if they still won&#8217;t, at least you&#8217;ve tried it and you can put it in findings (I&#8217;m kinda data driven on my own in qualitative findings, not quantitative) and do an alternative way.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"768\" data-attachment-id=\"9851\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/2026\/01\/12\/embrace-a-ragey-new-year-a-realistic-perspective\/phone-2\/\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/phone.png\" data-orig-size=\"1440,1080\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-meta=\"{&quot;aperture&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;credit&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;camera&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;caption&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;created_timestamp&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;copyright&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;focal_length&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;iso&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;shutter_speed&quot;:&quot;0&quot;,&quot;title&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;orientation&quot;:&quot;0&quot;}\" data-image-title=\"phone\" data-image-description=\"\" data-image-caption=\"\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/phone-1024x768.png\" src=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/phone-1024x768.png\" alt=\"singapore public phone\" class=\"wp-image-9851\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/phone-1024x768.png 1024w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/phone-480x360.png 480w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/phone-768x576.png 768w, https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/01\/phone.png 1440w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Of course, you have to first identify <em>are<\/em> you the problem? And if not, what other things to mitigate it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>With that, I leave you with a fun fact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The payphones in Singapore by Singtel are free for you to call locally for up to 3 minutes if you can find them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Also why is it free? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can&#8217;t officially buy Singtel phonecards for payphones any more. Any available cards are just collector&#8217;s items. And <em>my<\/em> guess is that it&#8217;s difficult to tear up all the existing phone lines and phones that are built along the road or HDBs for decades. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s better to keep it there and be used for emergencies, isn&#8217;t it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That&#8217;s one way of finding solutions and adapting to the times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Ragey New Year everyone, feel free to comment the same to me.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<pre class=\"wp-block-verse\"><strong>DLCs of Seriously Sarah<\/strong><br><br>Youtube:<a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/seriouslysarah\">https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/seriouslysarah<\/a><br>Instagram: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/sarahcoldheart\/\">https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/sarahcoldheart\/<\/a><br>Make her less angry here:<a href=\"https:\/\/throne.com\/sarahcoldheart\">https:\/\/throne.com\/sarahcoldheart<\/a><\/pre>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ragey New Year everyone! By the way, all pictures here are taken with my Charmera for that 90s feel. Apparently people have work have noticed me being angry and it&#8217;s the start of the year. But, why not? When every year I have observed and put in my own data (I actually put in a &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/2026\/01\/12\/embrace-a-ragey-new-year-a-realistic-perspective\/\" class=\"more-link\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Embrace a Ragey New Year: A Realistic Perspective<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[226],"tags":[294],"class_list":["post-9846","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-state-of-sarah","tag-opinion"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pf5tJ-2yO","jetpack_likes_enabled":false,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9846","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9846"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9846\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9856,"href":"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9846\/revisions\/9856"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9846"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9846"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seriouslysarah.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9846"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}